Psychological workshop - an unfaithful wife?

Long time we did not wash up anyone bones. But the summer was busy with one hand at work, on the other hand, unloaded on a personal communication. So no new stories for a long time is not tossed. And if it were not for last Sunday, then you will be and this time without discussion.

Our today's hero is Bob, not to say that he married late, but the difference between him and his wife - five years. Once Bob made ​​a successful career, here at its take-off, and he married. However, the crisis has put everything in its place, a career was broken, the car sold for debt, and even a small house but it turned into a studio apartment. Bob was not discouraged, beat again, and slowly rises from the ground up professionally in another area.

But his wife Masha, who five years, sat on his neck, and then a couple of years she worked under the patronage of Vacy in the same company secretary (as long as both have been fired reduction ), more than lucky. She now manages a small chain of stores, as proprietress came to the court. While at first the usual manager was arranged at the relaying papers. The girl she is, quite frankly, not a genius, but an ambitious and domineering, and youth and inexperience have in the past.

The situation is that Vasya's suspicion in a virtual (or worse, real ) novel way spouses. Even at the dawn of the relationship (when she nearly died of boredom sitting at home with the child ) he catch it on a virtual flirting with unknown persons. And now, amid all the losses and the uncertainty in their own abilities Vasilissa suspicion regained strength. Especially since Mary holds the password for ICQ somewhere deep in his head, and it does not check the outpouring of anonymous interlocutors.

To part with Masha, and in fact if suspicions are groundless - it happens, is equivalent to Vasey bankruptcy. He will lose the apartment ( bought in marriage ), to divide the child, and the salary Vasina now fewer cars and hardly allow him even to live comfortably with a minimum.

So Bob at an impasse. On the one hand, can not find anything and left as is. Masha is still on the job, and if delayed, within a reasonable. And what is there in ICQ - well, who cares?. On the other hand, want the truth. any.

yes. To fully understand the situation, you should know that Masha's regular claims to the Vase on the part of financial security. The brightest of the known, that ' I thought that went beyond the long-term. '. Here's Bob and doubts, not whether someone appeared more promising than it.

Just talk - Farewell, 2010

For a long time failed to go. In winter 2010, we traveled to St. Petersburg. Remind nothing special: The St. Petersburg metro unusual, Neva, a winter palace. Another wild and cold problems in order to get to a place. This is not Moscow, there had legs to run after the Metro.

But Moscow was in the early summer. Almost a week, when the heat is only included in the Capital Region. At this time it was too messy and wild, but managed to go on obzorku, a good hour that I slept from exhaustion smoril. Another went to a Shirvindt in the Theater of Satire. We were at the Exhibition Center, where I spilled hot tea on his wife. Wild stuffiness in the subway on June 12 and blocked by the center. Completely zadolbali museums and arrogant aunt Ismail offering a room for the night.

And autumn polutorasutochnaya car ride to Warsaw. But here and remember nothing special, except for mild nostalgia and the old town. And the cold has already been to here so easily poshlyatsya City. In addition, the following day drizzling rain, ports, and without that cloudy weather.

In any case, it was a change of scenery. After working life has never been rich this year. Not so much the work itself, as new points in the set it appeared in the past year.

For the first time in a long time, I hooked up again on a permanent full-time employees, although remote, the system. Let 's not all smooth, but I'm almost completely rid himself of the need to do anything except hands of financial transactions. In the new year I go to the prototype of the management structure, the division into departments, and the gradual bonding of disparate parts into a whole. You'll see the end of this year from nearly 20 people in one way or another involved in working with me on a regular basis have something monolithic and able to work as a team, not as my satellites for individual tasks.

Launched several new projects. The largest steel rolled in the offline and online exchange of links. Both the first and the second has not yet appeared in a plus, but the market after a month out from the start to self-sufficiency. A rolling, as a project with greater market capitalization and a high inertia, to be released to those of this summer.

Reorganization and new projects could not affect the total profit of. Although the approximate height of the travel agency was about 30 % and 50% webstudio somewhere in the end, all went to new projects and to increase the budget - expenditure. Probably worth posozhalet on Un-bought an apartment or even a car, but we do not need a car because of the almost complete otstutstvie need to move around the city, the apartment also would have required borrowing and partial freezing of some.

Speaking of borrowing. Despite the new and interesting proposals in the banking market for the first time since the end of 2008, I basically ignored them. If a friend of mine designed a couple of cards and some sort of credit, I even replaced by Russian Standard cards are not activated. Total debt decreased approximately 3.3. Five times in the summer of 2012 will be closed completely. The amount of minus one million rubles had once helped me to keep afloat and to develop an advertising agency, as well as plenty of naeksperimentirovatsya with a branch in another city, and vending. But today the story has run its. Loans - a good tool in the hands of competent, but in Russia it is still very poorly developed, it is extremely inconvenient in all respects, and very inflexible. Now my credit policy formed by two credit cards that I'd better change one or two lines of credit three times larger volume of lower interest rates by half. But no one has. Small businesses in the services sector to anybody in this country are not interested.

He is so uninteresting that even in the social tax benefits will only ' small ' enterprises that have from 50 people. So the increased load in the end, I will offset price increases and the transition to IP, which is also tax increases from year to year, showing the true value of inflation in the country: 2009. - 6000r. , 2010 - 12000r. 2011 - 16000r.

Given that I still have those helping the medical unit of the Ministry of Defence, I see and how to change byudzhetka. For three years my job has changed the title three times, as well as Department of submission, although I like doing reports, and doing. And yesterday, met a friend from high school teacher, who was once I finished, but soon this will be a federal university. So, the average salary of a teacher without a title with a load of 20 hours per week - 5 6tys. rubles, with the title - 8, 10 thousand. Of my generation, the faculty was just my classmate, and another boy a couple of years younger. Without a contractual burden on normal paysites teacher simply can not survive.

Sad? . Simply, it shows the vectors of. Fundamental science gives way to the application. Big business is a basic guideline for the development because of the greater ease of management by the state. Even a major victory last year we have more organizational plan: Olympics, World Cup. It seems, and the joy that such events will be held in the country, and yet themselves, and to make these events in terms of sport and the achievements of nothing. Triumph of control over personal achievements. There are fewer characters, more characters, which require worship with almost religious fervor.

Merzotno has read the news. This year, I actually cut up your reading business newspapers and magazines. Just not to puke. If used every day I read a local portal, Learn the top, now selectively or even days do not look. It's disgusting. Solid vyser and reflection, covered up the pain for the state of affairs in the country. Word of the country usurped home - dreamers, and terminators fighting hamsters. It's a shame, and merzotno. Especially when such vysery picked up by inexperience, or don `t know people who know, respect, or just hang out.

Communication was a major trend this year's personal. Although I am by the end of the year was to pass, sometimes otmalchivayas in ICQ or PM. Nevertheless, estimated that only about a thousand were provided consultation, the tenth part of which was deep enough. And this will be continued and further. More than a hundred students have passed through the school in 2010. And while only 20% of them were active, this is a good result. So that the school will continue its work, and the spring will move into a new, hopefully, the format.

The basic personal online services have become a trend, the google. E-mail, reader, news, documents, notifications, blogger, advords, Adsense. Innumerable services of the world 's largest search engine. And all of them occupied a place in my daily activities. Perhaps it should be noted, and attempts to Yandex, but then the list is much shorter and specificity: direct, Yandex Bar, poster, schedule. In addition, Yandex my personal dislike. Because vzalamoshnosti and confidence in the fact that he 's always right. Vrochem, this does not prevent me to objectively evaluate his highly successful in the search market in Russia, especially regarding the integration of services, money, schedules, posters, caps, cards, etc. n. Even the freaking yandeksmobili we go in Kaliningrad, and guglomobili - no.

Last year I almost said goodbye to advertingom, focusing on off-line projects and web services. Low degree of inertia in advertinge today, when many, but tomorrow - nothing, finally convinced me that for the development and stable existence, it is not suitable. Constantly searching for some new sources of revenue - it's tedious, boring and does not allow the rest. No matter how low has not been busy - it must be constant. In the case of business all depends on the correct management and delivered a calculated gradual development based on economic indicators, and not the will of the owner of any affiliate. Yes, it is longer. Yes, it is not profitable, if you look at the results of months, not years, and unit labor. But it is safe and promising. Although few people can think of to evolve in this direction.

2010 was a good. He gave hope that the crisis could be overcome if you work together. He was disappointed over the intensity and not only in Russia and around the world. He showed that if his own business and be professional, no shocks are not afraid. He proved that not all of us depend on the external factor of the notorious. He saved us from some old fears and gave new. And, of course, though he had stopped, but only to the extent that we have turned over yet another piece of the calendar. A life - it continued! . For me it was always a problem - put the new year instead of the usual old. For 2011, my friends!.

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